Whoa, so as we leave a day early from Japan, due to the massive 9.0 earthquake and risks of a nuclear disaster, there are a bucket load of thoughts running through my mind. So I decided it was time for a dear diary sequel (well actually a rant, so apologies in advance).
After seeing such catostrophic scenes on television, which looked like they were right out of the movie”2012″ and feeling one freaking heavy earthquake, it puts life into perspective!
The truth is we all bow down to mother earth and in any one second the world could destroy everything that humanity has created! How do you react to that?
Well, if you are a chyk, all of what I’m going to say is obvious, but it truly shows attachment to worlds materialistic possessions isn’t going to ensure you live a happy life…The 500000 homeless people from the tsunami can vouch for that!
Its time to take a fresh approach, and see life as an opportunity… an opportunity maybe not driven by JUST materialistic goals…the house and money are great things, don’t get me wrong…but isn’t living a life of self-fulfillment and enjoyment more important…
I mean how many times do we say “I really wish I could do that” to say either “but I can’t” or “later”. Well this is a wake up call to me anyway…get up and go get what you want…do the things you’ve always wanted to and appreciate life NOW! No excuses…coz you choose the directions you follow in the map of life, no one else does!
This leads me onto the people of Japan, who are without question, some of the nicest people we have come across!
And sometimes when you need help to achieve goals, these are the kinds of people you want in your life to set a great example for all of us.
To give you an idea of what I mean, this is some of things me and Anj, spotted along the way!
1. Whenever on a train, if an older person or people with children come aboard, one of the Japanese always gets up an offers a seat.
Yep I know you maybe thinking we have a seat for that in the UK, but how many people actually do it and show that form of selflessness when the train is busy?
2. They switch their phones to silent in trains, and never take a phonecall on the train. Now can you imagine that in london, where let’s face it we’re addicted to talking on our cell phones!?
They respect other people on the train! And it means you get to chill out and have a good conversation with others with you.
3. Eating on the move is not looked at favourably! If they buy take away, they stop somewhere and take the time to eat, rather than rushing their food as they walk!
WHAT’S THAT? You should take time out to actually relax and eat! Yep shocked me too!
4. Whenever we needed help, someone went out of their way to help us out…doesn’t matter if they couldn’t understand! They simply wanted to help!
And even if you went into a shop, and didn’t buy anything, the store owner still takes the time to converse, smile with you and wish you the best for your journey ahead! So nice!
5. After the tsunami and the quake, so many Japanese went to help their fellow country men.
And there was no looting, but a willingness to help others and share with others what they had, even if it wasn’t much!
Have to say that credit also has to go to the rescue workers from all over the world and those in the nuclear plant, risking their lives to save others!
This attitude, which I summarize by respect for others (others don’t have to EARN your respect, you already should have respect for others feelings and thoughts), kindness, politeness, selflessness and patience is something we all could demonstrate a little more of.
And on top of all that, taking time to savour the life we have with smiles and laughter is important!
That may sound cheesy, but to be honest, I don’t really care if being cheesy isn’t fashionable especially if it means we are living a life of happiness and bringing more happiness to others!
Its not easy, but I truly want to do more selfless deeds, with zero expectation in return!
Yes, even though we may say we already do that, do we really, or do we later get annoyed at someone and list all the nice things we’ve done for them in an argument, or expect that they should have been nicer to you?
That’s for you to decide.
I believe selfless helping will make our world a better place and is something we could all do more of!
Many people will argue against it by saying that they worry people may take advantage of you…well if you’re not expecting anything in return and are doing things for people out of the kindness of your heart, being taken advantage of doesn’t exist!
It doesn’t matter how they act towards you, because you have zero expectations back!
So there you have it, start appreciating and savouring life and what you have. Thank your parents, God, and whoever else you need to, for the life you have! And go out, do selfless deeds and live life to the full!
Coz in reality that’s all we have – the life WE CHOOSE to live!
Let me know your thoughts guys, drop your comments below!